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I never thought the day would come when I'd be telling people about this, I can't help but feel it's just too soon, and I just can't shake the strange feeling I've had since I found out. I can't help but feel lost, but I can always remember the great things my father has done and the phenomenal care he received in his care home.

Sadly, my father passed away yesterday at 3PM GMT. He was suffering from dementia and cerebral atrophy.

I would like to take this opportunity to say thank-you to everyone who supported my fundraiser for his care-home, and everyone who has offered support, their best wishes, and advice to me through everything.

I'm making this topic because I'd like to take a list of messages from my friends and people online to his funeral - I feel it would be one final gesture we can all make to my father. He truly was a great man, and I don't want it forgotten how many people he helped during his lifetime.

During my father's life he excelled at school and went on to graduate from Warwick university with a degree in economic history. He went on to support deaf children at the Royal Deaf Children's School in South-East England. He then moved into a career of social work in North England, and thus met my mother, where he helped countless people be rehabilitated and overcome their drug and alcohol related problems. Sadly, over the past few years he became progressively more ill following depression and a stroke.

If you'd like to send a message to my father, it could be anything, you can post on this topic and I'll arrange it to be on a style of collage for his funeral. It would really mean a lot to me and my family.

RIP Dad - Paul Ulldemolins. Loved father, brother, and son.

I'm so sorry for your loss George, may your father rest in peace. Stay strong during this time, my heart goes out to you and your family.

My sincere condolences,
AJ

I'm notoriously poor with words in these situations George, and it's not often I get tears streaming down my face.

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'm sure I speak on behalf of the community when I say if you need to talk at all in this difficult time, then I'm always here.

Reading what you wrote about him, I can't help but smile, he seemed so selfless and willing to give back to the world even though it had treated him so badly. May you rest in peace, Paul.

I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your father; he truly sounded like an awe-inspiring man, willing to selflessly give to others. Stay strong in these tough times, you can pull through.

May Paul rest in peace, lost but never forgotten for the happiness he has selflessly given.

R.I.P Paul Ulldemolins

Losing a family member is hard, but keep your head up.

I'm sorry to hear this. Just stay strong and you will get through this, i'm sure your dad would want you too.
My kindest regards to you and your family George.

May he forever Rest in peace.

Wow... that sucks...

Geo,

I'm so sorry for your loss and truly wish you and your family the best of luck. I for one will never forget Paul and all you've done to help him, you've been a great son to him and I'm sure he appreciates it.

I obviously never knew him but reading what you have to say about him and realizing that he raised the Geo we all know and love he must have been a truly amazing person. I'm sorry for your loss.

Best condolences to you and your family, Geo. He seems like he was a wonderful person and the kind of people that I respect and want to be. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here and am always ready to listen.